I talk with many people who have a desire to be more spiritual and i think that’s a great thing but how does one go about that? The most spiritual people i know are those who serve others with love.
Loving servants pay attention to needs. Servants are always on the lookout for ways to help others. When they see a need, they seize the moment to meet it, just as scripture encourages us to do.
When God puts someone in need right in front of you, he is giving you the opportunity to grow spiritually. I think a theme that runs all throughout the scriptures is loving others. Loving others includes helping others and that should not be put at the bottom of our “things to do” list. It rise to the top!
We miss many occasions for helping others because we lack sensitivity and spontaneity. Great opportunities to serve never last long. They pass quickly, sometimes never to return again. You may only get one chance to serve that person, so take advantage of the moment.
John Wesley’s motto was: “Do all the good you can, by all the means you can, in all the ways you can, in all the places you can, at all the times you can, to all the people you can, as long as you ever can.”
That is greatness. That is a large part of spirituality. You can begin by looking for small tasks that no one else wants to do. Do these little things as if they were great things, because God is watching.
“Never tell your neighbors to wait until tomorrow if you can help them now” (Proverbs 3:28 TEV).
How spiritual are you? What way to measure that might be to how much you help others.
Showing posts with label compassion. Show all posts
Showing posts with label compassion. Show all posts
May 31, 2012
March 08, 2012
The Power Of Compassion
Having compassion can radically change your life. Are you a compassionate person? One definition of compassion is the ability to understand the emotional state of another person or oneself.
Compassion has the added element of having a desire to alleviate or reduce the suffering of another.
I believe that having compassion for someone involves more than putting yourself in their place and genuinely wanting to understand or even help them. It involves beginning to have a totally different perspective when it comes to how you perceive others. For example, instead of assuming that the reason someone has done something that hurts you is because they are selfish or inconsiderate, assume instead that they had a good reason for doing it.
This can be difficult to buy into at first. But when you think about it, don't you usually have a good reason when you do something, even if what you did may seem inconsiderate to someone else?
Let's say you are very worried about your child's health. You took him to the doctor and he decided to take tests in order to rule out a serious disease. Later that day you are walking down the street, preoccupied with your son and an acquaintance passes you and says hello. You say hello in return but because you are so deep in thought you don't stop to chat. Later on you hear the acquaintance felt insulted because you "snubbed" him.
Even though it was not your intention to snub this person, and you had a very good reason for your behavior-the acquaintance assumed the worst. Unfortunately, this is what most of us do. We assume the worst.
Learning to have more compassion involves making the radical shift to assume the best in others. If the acquaintance had assumed the best, he would have concluded that it wasn't personal-that you must have been preoccupied-and he would have been right.
To be honest, it frustrates me that many evangelical groups don't seem to have much compassion for the down and out in our society. I used to struggle with having compassion for others but that has started to change over the last few years, due to my own personal struggles. I now believe that at every level of society, the key to a happier and more successful world is the growth of compassion. From my own limited experience I have found that the greatest degree of inner peace comes from the development of love and compassion.
When Jesus landed and saw a large crowd, he had compassion on them, because they were like sheep without a shepherd. So he began teaching them many things. Mark 6:34
Whom do you need to show compassion on today?
I believe that having compassion for someone involves more than putting yourself in their place and genuinely wanting to understand or even help them. It involves beginning to have a totally different perspective when it comes to how you perceive others. For example, instead of assuming that the reason someone has done something that hurts you is because they are selfish or inconsiderate, assume instead that they had a good reason for doing it.
This can be difficult to buy into at first. But when you think about it, don't you usually have a good reason when you do something, even if what you did may seem inconsiderate to someone else?
Let's say you are very worried about your child's health. You took him to the doctor and he decided to take tests in order to rule out a serious disease. Later that day you are walking down the street, preoccupied with your son and an acquaintance passes you and says hello. You say hello in return but because you are so deep in thought you don't stop to chat. Later on you hear the acquaintance felt insulted because you "snubbed" him.
Even though it was not your intention to snub this person, and you had a very good reason for your behavior-the acquaintance assumed the worst. Unfortunately, this is what most of us do. We assume the worst.
Learning to have more compassion involves making the radical shift to assume the best in others. If the acquaintance had assumed the best, he would have concluded that it wasn't personal-that you must have been preoccupied-and he would have been right.
To be honest, it frustrates me that many evangelical groups don't seem to have much compassion for the down and out in our society. I used to struggle with having compassion for others but that has started to change over the last few years, due to my own personal struggles. I now believe that at every level of society, the key to a happier and more successful world is the growth of compassion. From my own limited experience I have found that the greatest degree of inner peace comes from the development of love and compassion.
When Jesus landed and saw a large crowd, he had compassion on them, because they were like sheep without a shepherd. So he began teaching them many things. Mark 6:34
Whom do you need to show compassion on today?
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